The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible
Smart, successful women CAN have it all: a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. Intelligent women are having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale. They either can't find the right guy, are with the wrong guy, have relationships that don't last, or have given up on dating entirely. So I wrote this book to remedy the situation.
€˜Can you summarize the book for me in a minute?€ People have asked me that cheeky question hundreds of times. So here's the 3-word summary for ya: BE THE LIGHT.
What does that mean? Well, 5,000 or so letters I've received from women readers on their dating woes can all be boiled down to this: €˜Does my butt look good in these pants?€
Okay, what they're really asking is €˜Am I enough?€ Answer: Wrong question! Focus on this question instead: 'How can I make the people around me feel like a million bucks?'
At any point in life, you have the option to elevate those around you -- with a look, a touch, a phrase of praise, genuine appreciation. €˜Hey, love what you've done with that outfit.€ €˜Thanks for the fabulous meal!€ When you appreciate and elevate others, they light up. And because we're hypersocial, empathic beings equipped with mirror neurons, YOU light up, and everyone notices: €˜Who is that glow-in-the-dark girl? I want to be around her!€
Now, you're lonely no more! And instead of coming from a place of lack or need, you're coming from abundance, joy, and choice. A much stronger starting point for any relationship.
Butts and fashions change. The power to elevate, on the other hand, is power that cannot be taken away from you. The Tao of Dating is your manual for learning how to be the light and come into your authentic power.
This is not your grandma's dating guide. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. And nowadays, lots of guys are less educated and affluent than you. What to do? I give you tips on how to handle all that like:
The dilemma of the career-oriented woman
How to embrace your inner goddess
Why men are so damn horny
The perfect guy vs. the perfect guy for you
Why good women get involved (and stay) in bad relationships
How to spot bad boys
How to love your body now
Thirteen places to meet great men
Why long-distance relationships suck
Internet dating: perils and opportunities
Meeting men: should you initiate or not?
Fail-safe ways to make men approach you
Rejection-Proofing yourself
How to be irresistible
The Three-Man plan
3 ways to make a man fall in love with you
What drives men away
The right time to have sex with a man
How to keep a man worth keeping
The Tao of Dating is a heart-centered, science-based, practical guide to finding fulfillment in your love life. I give you small, easy steps that put the fun back into dating, plus the science and reasoning behind it.
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