Impotent NOT: Electrifying sex with physical limitations - our experts tell you how
"After reading your book together my husband and I were intimate for the first time since he became impotent ain 1997. God bless you, Mr. Clontz. I feel loved and wanted again and so does my husband. I am telling everyone I know to read your book. It's a beautiful approach to a difficult problem. Thank you!" - R.T., New York City
"I had given up on ever making love again until I read your book. When I snuggled up to my wife she couldn't figure out what in the world was happening it had been so long. Before the evening was over, I felt like a real man again and she was so overcome with emotion that tears were streaming down her face. I never thought a book could help someone like me. I only wish I'd read it years ago." - B.P., Kansas City
"My husband was embarrassed when I told him I bought your book and he refused to read it, so I started reading it myself, first silently to myself and then out loud. After 15 minutes or so my husband said, 'All right already. I'll read it,too.' We couldn't stop flipping the pages. By bedtime we were ready to start experimenting as you suggested. You said the book would change our lives. You were right. There are millions of men and women in the world who would benefit from this book. I hope to God they find it." - K.C., Toronto
"I thought sex was impossible without an erection. Your book changed my mind. Thank you, Derek. You've made my life worth living again. My wife couldn't be happier. God bless you." - P.D., London
"This is the best self-help book I've ever seen. It's fun to read and the tips and advice and anecdotes made me feel comfortable and confident with the subject matter. My wife and I are closer than we've been in years and much less stressed. Everyone at work keeps asking me, 'What's got you so calm and happy?' I feel great. My wife wants you to know that next to me, you're the most important man in her life because of what you've done for us." - W.E., Los Angeles
"I was afraid your book would be too racy for my husband and me but it isn't. You handled the topic of physical intimacy without sexual intercourse in a mature way and everything is uplifting and intelligent. I've even given a copy to my pastor to use in a church class on 'how to improve your marriage and build a stronger relationship'. " - H.L., Atlanta
"My husband isn't impotent but we can't have intercourse because I've gone through menopause and it's painful for me. Your book has really helped us find new and exciting ways to be physical while avoiding 'going all the way'. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. We're thrilled with our results." - J.G., Chicago
"What I like about your book is that you don't throw a bunch of weird sex techniques at us. Instead, you show us new ways to think so that we can express our love physically in ways that are comfortable for us and make sense to us. We paid over $5,000 to a sex therapist and didn't get advice this good." - D.R., Phoenix
These testimonials prove it beyond the shadow of any doubt: You DON'T have to give up sex simply because you have lost the ability to engage in intercourse.
You CAN enjoy warm, wonderful, beautiful, healing and, yes, electrifying intimacies every day of your life by changing ever-so-slightly the ambitions and focus of your words, touching and intentions.
And you might just find that as your love life improves from not-so-good to best-sex-ever, your entire relationship with your mate gets better and better.
As you read, keep an open mind.
Think about the strategies we discuss and how you might apply them creatively in your life.
Whatever you do, don't feel "alone". Impotence and erectile dysfunction are serious challenges with studies telling us that 152 million men worldwide – including at least 15 million American men - are frustrated by the inability to engage in intercourse on any given day.